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The "N" Word
Unmasking the Narcissist
Drawing on real stories, psychological insights, and evidence-based approaches, Tokashemia explore the traits that underpin narcissistic behavior, the dynamics that keep abuse cycles going, and the steps the readers can take to regain autonomy.
Books
Find Your Next Read
The "N" Word: Unmasking the Narcissist - Reclaim your voice, recognize narcissistic abuse, and restore your sense of self.
Daddy's Girl Devotional - A devotional for daughters embracing the father-daughter bond with God.
I Want to Be a Nurse Like Mommy - An inspirational children's book celebrating nurses and the children who dream of becoming one.
Reaching Back - A guide to breaking free from the trauma of domestic abuse and finding freedom and healing.
About
Tokashemia Grady
Tokashemia Grady is a businesswoman, best-selling author, and advocate who balances career, ministry, and family. She is the driving force behind numerous programs and a devoted daughter and mother who continues to inspire others through her leadership and example. Using her platform to encourage healing, wholeness, and self-love, she demonstrates how faith and perseverance can transform hardship into hope.
Tokashemia is proud of her children and the life she has built by God’s grace. A resident of Houston, Texas, she remains committed to writing—the craft she loves—and to teaching the Word of God as she strives to be the best disciple she can be.
Throughout her journey, she has endured many hardships, but these trials have become pivot points—pace makers for those watching and for those who may have faced similar afflictions. Her story stands as a beacon of resilience, urging others to keep moving forward with faith, courage, and grace. A devoted mother of four daughters, she brings her passion for writing, speaking, and coaching to her work as an inspirational speaker, entrepreneur, and expert nurse consultant, drawing on her experiences to guide others toward healing, self-discovery, and fulfillment.
Reaching Back Ministry
Comforted by God, Reaching Back to Comfort Others — 2 Corinthians 1:3-4
Reaching Back Ministry was born out of survival. Having lived through domestic abuse, its founder Tokashemia understands the silence, the fear, and the feeling of facing it alone — and she is reaching back to help others through it. Rooted in 2 Corinthians 1:3-4, Reaching Back comforts others with the same comfort God gave her, offering motivational encouragement and mental and spiritual support. No one has to walk this road alone.
Reviews
What Readers Are Saying
Amazon Customer
I absolutely love Tokashemia Grady's transparency throughout this book. Her portrayed weaknesses and strength is relatable to so many that have gone through or even still in this situation, have a positive outlet, VICTORY! I once was Tokashemia Grady and I too have triumphed and made it my past, I made it out. I love it, well done. I pray that her story bring many more victims to victory, I pray she reach a multitude that struggle with or have struggled with domestic violence. I stand with her and many alike. Well done!
Nakisha Wallace, TX
This book is a great read!!! Tokashemia's transparency in this book gives others the will and motivation to KEEP GOING no matter what life throwsat you. She never gave up, she had goals and she obtained them, her faith in God carried her through!! I enjoyed this book so much, I read it in only two sittings and that was ONLY because I saved the second sitting for a flight!
Carolyn H. , TX
Everything has room to improve. I started reading and could not stop. I will start Praying more. Loved it! 👍
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